William Appleton, author of a recent book entitled Fathers and Daughters, believes that it is a woman’s relationship with her father (67) decides how successful she will be in her (68) life. According to Appleton there are three important steps a girl must (69) in her relationship with Daddy.
The (70) . is the "little girl" stage in which the daughter loves and idolizes (崇拜) her father (71) he were a god or hero without (72) . And her father loves his daughter (73) blindly, seeing her as an "oasis (绿洲) of smiles" in a hard, cold world. Then comes the second stage. It starts during adolescence and (74) for many years. Here, the little girl begins to rebel against Daddy and (75) his authority. He reacts with anger and (76) . A. initial B. primary
C. first D. ‘early’
A.
And the final stage comes (77) a woman reaches the age of about thirty. At this time the daughter sees her father not as a hero (78) as a fool, but learns to accept him (79) he is, for better or worse. And Daddy forgives her, too, for not being the (80) little girl he had once hoped for.
B.
But not all daughters go through all three stages, and it is here that the key to a woman’s career (81) .Those girls who never get past the first "oasis of smiles" stage, (82) all their lives seek out their fathers’ love and approval, will never (83) in the business world. They will remain at the secretarial (秘书的) (84) all their lives.
C.
It is only those women who get to the final stage, those who (85) and accept Daddy’s faults, who can even hope to be (86) enough and independent enough to become a candidate for top- management.